As your child gets older, new challenges and decisions face all parents. What’s the best way to educate your child? How closely does your child need supervised? What’s the best way to properly motivate your child? 10TV talked to both parents and experts to get their opinions on these potentially challenging issues.
1. Home school vs. traditional school
"I think that there are some issues with public schools; that is why we chose to home school," said Jennifer Maron, a mother.
Jennifer Whaley expresses a different opinion. "I say traditional school. You have to learn how to communicate and be around people who are not like you," she explained.
Parent coach Terry Manrique suggests that traditional schools give the child the opportunity to socialize, but also acknowledged that homeschooling could give your child a unique view of the world.
2. “Helicopter parenting”
“Helicopter parenting” is a trendy term that means Mom is always nearby.
"I mean cut the cord - once they are out of the womb, you are done," Stephanie Vandyke told 10TV.
Gina Whaley agrees, further explaining that "eventually they are going to have to be independent; they are going to have to take care of themselves. As hard as it is, you are going to have to (cut the cord)".
According to Terry Manrique, actions speak louder than words. "As long as you are setting good examples at home, you have good values at home, and you are teaching them these values, there is no need for you to be a ‘helicopter parent’," said Manrique.
3. “Cashing in” on good behavior
Jennifer Bradburn said no. "I don't think children should be motivated with money," she stated.
"I think everything is moderation," explained Marcia Landis.
Parenting experts suggest that bribing your child is a temporary solution. Instead, they recommend taking time to talk to your children about how they are handling their responsibilities as a means to coach and motivate them.
So what do you think? Tweet Brittany with your opinions at @Brittany10TV
Mommy Wars Schedule
Thursday, Nov. 5 - Education
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